im upset because she ruined my dad's birthday
im upset because she didn't control what she was saying
im upset because she deliberately targeted the argument at me
im upset because she put down my church
im upset because she is in considerate about other ppl's feelings

i don't want to tell her anything, i don't want her to target her argument at me. i don't want to associate to anything from her church.

i am mad..really mad.